Well yeah.....they were violated. If we were talking about buying a car that the seller knew had problems they didn't disclose....there would be no discussion about it. No one would questionnwhether the buyer felt violated. Words like fraud got thrown around.

And look how easy it was to get lemon laws on the books. Nobody batted an eyen. That shit got done! Had to be, to protect the marketplace which depends upon a large measure of trust and fair play in order to thrive.

Guess what else depends upon a large measure of inherent trust and fair play in order to thrive? The dating landscape, right? Interpersonal relationships, right?

You degrade that landscape with constant skullduggery and shitfuckery....there's going to be an inevitable result to that. Collapse.

And what are we seeing?

What's the difference between dating shitfuckery and financial fraud? It's the same shifty, manipulative behavior.

We need to be asking ourselves why we never consider that and why there's ALWAYS a push to excuse and justify it.