Well.....yeah. That's what a hierarchy based primarily and firstly on gender does.
It's working exactly as designed.
Being Transgender won't save you from that, even if you have experienced life on both sides of the divide.
It's obsession with gender tropes and stereotypes, in and of themselves, that creates the war. What makes assertiveness okay if you're a man but not okay if you're a woman?
Why are the characteristics assigned and attributed to masculinity more valuable and highly regarded to society than the ones assigned and attributes to femininity?
Being Trans was never going to be an innoculation from all that. It was hubris to think it would be.