Well, that's the way it goes for most of us. That's the whole point. Always has been.
Just right now, pairing up super young is rately possible due to the rising costs of establishing oneself. In a few communities, men are having some man drama. In others, women are having some woman drama.
Hardly reason to scrap the whole endeavor of feminism. There's always some group having some drama. We're primates. Duh.