Well that would be those problematic man feels based off ideas of "Masculinity", wouldn't it.

There's a difference between experiencing an emotion, like fear in this case, or insecurity (fear based) over losing a girlfriend to another man and having feels about it--in this case that he should try to control what she wears while surfing.

The emotion is inconsequential. We all have them. They're not always pleasant. They smack us upside the head in peculiar ways sometimes.

But how you feel about and how you reapond to those feelings is a you situation you don't have a right to burden someone else with.

He knew she was a surfer. He knew she modelled. He knows that's her liveihood.

He was out of line.

And Do Not even pretend that if this situation were reversed and she was the one throwing a hissy fit that became public over him grinding on someone on stage or something that she eould not get raked over the coals for it.

No more double standards, my guy.

Men's feels are your man problems. Leave us out of them.