Well, obviously, I wouldn't. But you don't know until yoube asked them out. And even then, men hide their feelings, remember? Being a man means suppressing feelings, remember? Unless he refuses and basically flat out says that's the reason why how would I know? In that moment?

I wouldn't. I can't read minds. Sorry, don't have that super power.

Then there are those that will go out with you if you ask just to undermine you. Yes, they get weedes out too, but you don't know who they are till you've been around them a while.

One of the key reasons dating apps are such abysmal failures is that we're dating strangers and putting hopes of love and partnership on strangers.