Well no, my viewpoint on that doesn't come from the feminist narrative, it comes from one of my college roommates who is now a lawyer, my childhood dentist (who was also my coach in little league) who's wife was a lawyer (retired now), some folks at the church I attended who were lawyers and we had Bible study together, I work on an industry that has it's own lawyers on site and legal counsel as a benefit, and I have a distant cousin who is a lawyer.
So my viewpoint came from them and their court stories and also from people I've known have been through court. I'm divorced and so have also been through family court. Nobody was "out to get" my ex-husband. They were very professional. He made an ass of himself during court mandated negotiations and then didn't show up for the actual hearing, which is disrespectful. He too is one of these guys who couldn't be fussed to show up and then goes around blathering how the courts are prejudiced against men.
As a single parent, I've also heard numerous horror stories of trying to get a divorce or custody arrangement done with a belligerent ex. Some of those fellow single parents are men/fathers so against I'm not saying women are angels and never show their ass. But hands down, no contest, it cannot be argued, many many more of those single parents with horror stories just getting it done because of a belligerent ex are women.
I won't repeat what I said about taking care of children. I did not say men were incapable. Yet they're not doing it, on average. If they were, they'd be getting primary custody or more 50/50 arrangements. Feminists are for this because it would alleviate the professional penalties we tend to incur by becoming mothers. So the idea that this is something women do to men is ludicrous. It would be going against our best interests.
Like I said, I'm not trying to convince you because it's clear you're entrenched in misogynistic ideology. You've chosen that pony to be the one you want to ride through your life. That's your choice. Bowing out of the dating scene is a good move for you so I think you're making a good decision there. The Humane society is overrun with cats again so you won't be lonely.
