Well......no. I don't thi k aggression should be unilaterally condemned, even in a genderless fashion.
There's a place for aggression. There's a time for aggression. Aggression is important.
What I'm talking about is a range of behaviors that in the animal kingdom would be called pecking. We humans have our own versions of those behaviors.
Being humans with more complicated emotions than other animals and also a much higher leve of self awareness, we should be capable of controlling these behaviors before they cause unnecessary problems and also want to.