Well, I'm a woman too, but I think you mistook the cruxt of what I was saying.

It's not the venting or having room for emotions. It's the constant childish manipulative bullshit. There's a double standard here. No man worth his salt puts up with this shit either, although you're right in that BOTH men and women have those in their ranks who do this shit.

But.

More men seem to be doing it. It's become normalized as a characteristic of masculinity.

AND.

Men seem to think that womeb should want to put up with this shit and they shouldn't.

NOBODY should be expected to put up with this shit. Adults need to step up and fucking adult already.