Well, frankly, a lot of the time it is their fault. Let's take a look at some things.
1. Their performance of manhood is a turn off (alpha ideology) and always has been. Women don't want their entire lives to be one dominance challenge after another over every stupid little thing. Who would?
2. They don't try or they treat dating and building relationships like a game. It's a journey and a constant, not something you press the right button combo and then you're the champion. Also, women are people, not trophies.
3. They're Incels at 16 under the precept that women won't give them sex (at 16) and now they have no hope because they've been labeled a beta (at 16) before they've even matured and even though the AVERAGE age of first sexual experience is 17. This is delusional thinking and it goes downhill from here.
4. They accuse women of being hypergamous while they won't look twice at a woman who isn't young, heroin skinny, no children, a virgin, submissive....and the list just keeps growing. They do this with the audacity of thinking they're Adonis reincarnated while sitting up on the couch screaming into a headset about fantasy football and or judging women's butts in the same stained clothes they were wearing 3 days ago and shovelling pork skin rinds, pickled quail eggs and beer down their throats so that they can freshen up the air later. These podcast bros are really something else.
5. They got cut loose by their first wife because they cheated and/or were dead weight or abusive and think by virtue of having a penis they deserve another woman, a fresher fruit version that can be more easily controlled (see above) to save them from having to face the consequences of their own shortcomings.
6. They spend all their free time shaming women in the internet.
7. They gleefully follow Influencers like Tate and Peterson who think women are property or should be handed out to men like participation trophies for having a dick.
To be clear, this is not an indictment of men. There are plenty of men out there doing just fine. In fact, most are. They're just living their lives, not bothering anybody, and not causing anybody problems.
It's also true that *some* men are legit struggling with lonliness and despair. Maybe they're shy and have a hard time connecting. Maybe they were happily partnered and have had to reenter the dating scene and the landscape has changed so dramatically, they can't get their bearings. Maybe they're late to dating in the first place because of familial obligations or something and stuff like this is just harder as you get older (It just is). Maybe they've absorbed too much marketing propaganda and it's shredded their confidence. They think they have to be this, that, or the other to stand a chance, so they never try to learn to ride the pony they've got (everyone has both positive and negative attributes. Everyone. You have to spotlight your good ones and work on your bad ones. We ALL do.) And so forth and so on.
I think if you want compassion from women, in these discussions about lonliness and despair, you need to cleave yourselves off from that first group of men in no uncertain terms because they've been loud and obnoxious about their misogyny for over a generation now.
You need to ask yourselves, "Why would any sane rational person want to be around, much less have sex with and build a life with someone who despises them and wants to hurt them?" If you can't come up with a good reason why you need to make sure you're not doing anythng that might associate you with those who think like that. And sure as shooting don't blame women for being reasonable people and not wasting their compassion on those who will never ever ever reciprocate it or any other positive bonding behavior or sentiment in turn. Call us crazy, most of us are just super practical like that. Our Mamas taught us pretty young not to throw effort after foolishness.
Ergo, if you want the attention of women, don't act or be foolish.
