We women are learning, at long last that you can't.
You can't fix them, regardless of all the memes and hopium of the power of love.
They're like the parable of the scorpion crossing the river on the back of the frog. They'll drown you, even if doing so drowns themselves along with you.
You can't ever trust them with that level of intimacy.
Jump away fast and leave them on the river bank.
What a waste. So glad more of you aren't swallowing that God damned pill.