We have listened. That's why our "inflamed" egos aren't hurt. That's just wishful thinking on your part.
I'd wish you luck, but I agree with the OP. Also, even if I didn't, y'all are still delusional about "traditional" women from other countries and you're in for a rude awakening.
There's a part of me that doesn't want to be a complete ass and wait on the sidelines, popcorn ready, to laugh at the comedic conclusion of this melodrama. There's another part that really enjoys a good trainwreck, though. What can I say? I grew up amongst evangelicals so I'm no angel.