We can't influence them. Problem is, to onfluemce you have to have superior numbers of belief. Far too many white women still fall for the "family values" trope and are blind to everything attached to it. For far too many, they stay complicit in white supremacy to secure their position, mostly because they're either being treated well enough by their man or they're like Phyllis Schlayfly. They can wear the performative robe well enough and marri r a weak man so they're happy bossing from off stage, so to speak. These are the ones who are actively perpetuating white supremacy.

For all other white women, your influence is limited. You get drowned out.