We already have that world. Women never get a moment's peace from the expectation of thinking about everyone but themselves and being responsible for everyone else's feelings and behavior.

That's part of the reason why the critique of the male gaze is taking place. Because we women were made responsible for men's feelings of lust and desire.

Take your twins and stop them in the back seat where they belong for yourselves and you won't have to worry about whether you're being judged for feeling them. You might also find that women won't have to be so conservative with their praise and admiration because your twins won't then kick us in the shins for giving you that praise.