Uh huh.

You can think of relationships like current.

If the current only flows one way, you have directional current. The terminal end gets all the benefit. This is a servant relationship. Power flows one way.

If the current flows both ways, you have alternating current. Both sides can give and receive current. This is more of a partnership relationship. Power and benefits flow both ways.

But yes, let's take a legitimate criticism, slap that red herring of whataboutism on it to avoid any real discussion and continue on with feeling hard done by because women recognize that AC is the only way to go.

Let us know how that works out for you. Just don't come and try to cry in my corn flakes about it because you got zapped.