Ugh. We’re not "acting like" anything. The growing frustration and disappointment in men is not an act. It is very real.

Low testosterone is only measurable on a serological level, it’s not like men start glowing or something when it gets low.

Men’s inappropriate aggression is a huge part of why you’re in the predicament they’re in. More of the same won’t help, it’ll just make matters worse. You’d be far better off not doing such shitty things with the aggression you’ve got and reorienting it into more productive tasks. Just saying.