Two wrongs will never make a right. I never said she was okay or "right" for pushing him away. I said that it doesn't justify him cheating. There were healthy ways for him to redress loss of affection in their relationship. That's what adults do. He didn't do any of those things. He pouted, was obstinate about her suggestions of counseling and then chose the spiteful response if cheating. That's what spoiled brats do. Not adults. Not grown men.

What you're saying is the equivalent to it being okay to set my house on fire because I clipped your vehicle in a parking lot. No, it's not okay that I damaged your car. But, there's a way to restitution for that. An apology and paying for damages. You do not have the right to come to my house and set it on fire because your feewings got hurt. Me hitting your car didn't 'make' you do that with your anger. No. In this scenario you CHOSE to be a punk assed dick. Full stop.

Your assumptions about me are incorrect but not surprising. Men always say that when they get triggered by being called out for bullshit. I haven't been hurt by men any more than any person who dates has by the opposite sex. We all know there's a risk involved. We get over it when things don't work out. We try again when we're ready. My problems with men do not stem from dating, nor is it a few isolated incidents. It's the overall general masculine landscape. You all seem to have lost your damn minds.
As to your last point about how women face lesser consequences or whatever in the public eye, no. Her emotional "affair" was not right either. It was a probably a missed signal to file.

Again, two wrongs will never make a right. I didn't focus on that because she's clearly already emotionally flailing herself for it. And taking the blame for his conduct as well.
She's responsible for her conduct and hers alone. HE is responsible for his. I highly doubt he's sitting around blaming himself for what she did wrong during their marriage. More likely he's using it to bait new women ...."my wife was such a shrew, she was so cold. I just want to be loved."

Uh huh.