Two things.

You're conflating again. Saying something sexist does not equate to a strong an unreasonable desire for revenge, which what the word vindictive means.

I believe the word you're looking for is contemptuous. I won't argue whether that's true or not as I don't know Behar any better than you do.

Second thing that she's entitled to any outlook on life that she wants, the same as anyone else. She's not required to play Pollyanna to the butt hurt feelings of men so they'll feel better about themselves.

Wasn't that something YOU were gonna work on??? You seem to be splitting your focus.

Make up your mind. Do you want to sit up on the internet and critique women's attitudes you don't like or do you want to make men feel better about not even being able to get affection or attention from cats? Or the agonizing despair that they'll never get a woman who looks like Claudia Schiffer to fuck them because they'll never look like George Clooney. Or whoever.