True, but the sentiment is fairly ubiquitous. I doubt she's going to answer because of that. This is one of those lived experience things that we women all go through in varying degrees that men mostly blind themselves to or jusr don't notice. Whatever.

Nonetheless, women don't think about femininity like that. But men do. They tell us in little cutting remarks or "jokes" or just flat out ignorant statements said with "authority" and assumed expertise all the damn time.

Not All Men. But it always comes from men and sooner or later were gonna hear about it.