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1 min readJul 13, 2024

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Those are subjective terms and attraction works weirdly in the brain.

Being attracted to a guy for non-physical reasons, like he's funny and entertaining for example, makes the guy more attractive physically to you. He's got you rolling on the floor laughing and all of a sudden you don't notice that his nose is way too big for his face, or that he's short, or that he's a bit dumpy around the middle.

And you won't start to notice those thi ga until you start to lose respect for him. And they're much worse. He's not a little dumpy around the middle, he's a butterball. He's not short, he's stubby. He's not got a big nose, it's big and red like a clown.

You wonder how you ever thought he was cute.

Bald fact od the matter is, how a man's physicality is perceived by women is greatly dependent on how he makes her feel and his behavior. Men have the ability to make themselves more attractive, naturally, far more than women do (we have to use makeup and body cinching garments) and far more than they realize.

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