This was good. When it comes to uneanted pregnancy, men never think about it until it's too late. The pregnancy exists and must be dealt with. Then they feel guilty and shame about the pain it causes the woman, but it's all about his feelings of guilt and shame and being a failure as a man. She's still tangental. Collateral damage. A prop in his hero's journey. Incidental.

She's also then, damaged goods. A reminder of his failure. Whether she says anything "negative" or not, her mere presence is a censure of his manhood. He bails.

It's different when the chikd was wanted by the man. Abraham Piper wrote a book to the child he and his wife lost. He didn't publish it, but the fact that he wrote a lost child a book expressing his love for that child and sorrow for the time they would never have together speaks volumes.

That's some emotional literacy. That's some fucking healthy masculinity.

But most men call him a simp, a beta, and the like. They chase after Andrew Tates and Jordan Petersons, and Elon Musks. That's who they want to emmulate and be like.

It's men like Abraham Piper who you men should feel giddy in the presence of. He's they type you should revere and look to for leadership. All our lives would be immeasurably improved.

But you won't.

That's a big part of the divestment from men too.