This is true. Seems like many to very many of us go through a hook up phase. We don't always hook up when we're in this phase because of the danger, but we do desire it. Also, those phases are usually after certain life events or when we're changing dating strategies. You get burnt out from the selected offerings pretty quick though. Also, sex toys are much better and don't have the stigma they once did. No bumblin' stumblin' fumbler can compete with a
battery operated dildo and a half way decent imagination. If they're not going to take advantage for an opportunity for deep emotional connection, you're better off, statistically speaking, looking for sexual satisfaction somewhere other than the bumblin' stumblin' fumblers.