This is the shitty part of all this labor dumping and accusations of having no empathy or compassion. The ones insisting that random women perform this for them on the internet, never listen to women anyway. You look through their content and it becomes clear they hate and bash women regularly. That's what they're choosing to do with their space and time online. Let loose their inner musogynistic beast.

Then someone like Simon, who claims to be a feminist, and immediately takes up their banner because he "understands loneliness" or whatever.

I don't want to make it a contest or about choosing sides either, but we can't get around the fact that A CHOICE is being made there, one that betrays what you said were your beliefs and all the people who share those beliefs and welcomed you for those who will turn on you the minute you stop feeding them fast enough.

It's the proverbial "angry wolf" and he's feeding them the women who accepted him as an ally in order to throw up some meaningless performance to enhance his own status.