This article has nothing to do with feminism or the "feminist viewpoint". It’s an observation that being loyal to men who will not return that loyalty to you does not serve women well.

Further, every one of the problems you mentioned men could solve for their own damn selves, quite easily, by taking responsibility for themselves and what’s going on in their lives. Engage with the work of living instead of blaming women and society while y’all sit around and do nothing other than being dead weight or out and out destructive.

You are making her point for her. It’s time to grow up. You should not have to have your hand held as an adult to find your way to some usefulness or purpose or to seek professional help when you need it.