They don't want to or they don't care.

I think maybe it's time we women accept that truth and then make our decisions to either settle or shut them out of our lives.

There's not enough men who actually want the reciprocal relationships with us that we long for with them to go around.

So you either find one based on other criteria, your choice, and don't emotionally invest to protect yourself from the inevitable disappointment and loneliness of living with someone who sees you as less than, a deformed man who does his laundry for him and has a nice hole to stick his dick in. Or, you give up on them and walk away instead of torturing yourself with false hope that will never materialize.

One thing about social media. It's a bit like having telepathy. They've shown us repeatedly for the last twenty years what they think of us, what's going on in their heads,what love means to them, and their deepest desires.

Maybe it's time we listened and stopped chasing after a dream that doesn't exist and may not ever exist again if it ever did.