They don't need to. And you don't need to have bad experiences.

You just need to be convinced by propaganda that women only go after the top 10% of men and that's not you.

Ita grievance thinking because it's demonstrably not true, which you would be able to reason out easily by going for a walk and looking past your own nose once in a while. Or applying some common fucking sense on occasion. Or critically thinking through what is being fed to you. Or "following the money" / asking yourself cui bono.

But they don't do that. Ever.

So either they're stupid, a true village idiot. Or, they are mentally paralyzed by propaganda, entitlement, and grievance thinking.

If it's the former, nothing g can be done for thrm and let's hope they Darwin award themselves out of the gene pool with all due haste.

If it's the latter, people like youbare feeding this beast and you need to stop mollycoddling these guys. It's not going to end well for any of you.