They are. I strongly strongly believe this.

And men can't have it both ways. You can't argue about a male loneliness epidemic out of one side of your mouths and then claim that men are not harmed by our collective perceptions and narratives about sex. How we think and act about sex.

What is it that's making you so lonely? How does that tie into the gender narratives about sex?

Okay. So how can you now say there is no harm? Or not an equitable amount of harm one to one? Don't get me wrong, she was harmed more because 100 men agreed to harm her with their avarice and their greed. She harmed 100 men with her avarice and greed.

But one to one, the damage is equitable. There are slightly different pain points based on gender, sure, but the damage is equitable.

And yes, men are harmed by having to buy sex. Just as they are harmed by making a community dick of themselves. You've got to have really low self esteem to be community dick like that.