There's not one thing that driving men to suicide, but yes, this belief men have is most certainly one of them.

What you're seeing as hypocrisy is pure projection, my guy.

And yes, I've rakes more than a few pick mes to task too.

Your "criticism" are straight up male version pick me behavior. Desperate and self centered, couched in envy and jealousy, marinating in bitterness.

You're pissed because someone doesn't want you back when you want them. You want them to change to suit your ego rather than wait and look for someone who IS going to want you back and love you without making you have to jump through hoops for their own selfish benefit.

You're pissed that someone who would harm you doesn't want you, and therefore can't harm you.

And you're refusing to see how ridiculous that is.

Everything else was just justification filler around this one theme. "I can't have what I want, it's not fair, and it's all the fault of women practicing agency and discernment."