There's that gaslighting we all know and love. So very well.

Tell you what. You first. You want these men assisted, then you be the one to put yourself out there in harm's way. Find yourself an Incel, befriend him, and compassionately listen to him till your ears bleed.

Lead him away from being so destructive. Shouldn't be too hard. All he needs is compassion and understanding and for someone to care. Give him that model of healthy masculinity he was robbed of. Be there for him in his time of need. As you pointed out, society will crumble if young men are allowed to falter. Your comfort, safety, and well being must therefore be secondary to the preservation of society too.

We'll wait. Let us know how it goes.

That's what I thought. All talk. Let me guess. As a man, you're management, right? You don't do any of that feminine soft skill stuff. That's what secretaries are for, amirite? What would the dudes say?