There was no vitriol in that comment, his argument is not a strawman argument, he's pointing out that your position lacks nuance and understanding. It's laughably simplistic, in fact just based on the fact that you're making it based on hindsight alone and ignoring the fact that Clinton won the popular vote by a decent enough margin. It was the electoral college that handed the election to Trump. Remind us what the demographics of the electoral college looks like again?

There were both legit and propagandized reasons not to vote for Clinton particularly white women. No one could have known how many Supreme Court seats would need to be filled at that time.

You know, just because you admire your mom and have a lesbian best friend doesn't automatically give you street cred for being interested in what's going on with women overall. It means you admire your mom and your best friend is a lesbian.

Maybe if you don't want to feel like youve become an enemy, maybe take more care in the content your consuming and how much. Maybe take responsibility for curating your own algorithms. I can tell you that if I didn't do so dilligently and believed every cockamamie dumb ass thing coming from the mouths of men, I'd believe men want all of us women dead or shackled and lined up for forced insemination or given out by lottery to men. Cause that's the sort of shit that's coming from your side of the gender spectrum and it's not a small amount of it. Maybe work on not being so fragile and triggered by the opinions of people who shouldn't matter to you because they're not actually a part of your life. Maybe spend some time gaining some media savviness so you can distinguish between lunatic ravings of Influencers clearly trying to generate outrage to make money, women in general,.corporate feminism, and feminism in general.

Maybe don't be so reckless and callous with your own words before you criticize women.