There it is. I rest my case (from previous comment).

This is why your marriage didn’t work out too. You’re down to earth and pragmatic but he’s a peacock; all about showing off, a high roller.

I bet he was super fun for you to live with. Did he ever refer to you as a wallflower or something like that because you’re not into "a lifestyle"? AKA, you’re not a pretentious snob?