Then you shouldn't have used the word 'perk', because that's not what a perk is.

Anyone could be assaulted at any time, and need to be defended by others. Men too. There are good Samaritan laws for a reason.

If we're out on the street and I saw a woman assaulting you and I could have intervened and did nothing, I could go to jail. Rightly so.

But you flip the dynamics and the minute sex or sexual desire is added to the equation, I was asking for it. So why don't you tell me about those perks some more?

You keep your perks and enjoy, obviously I didn't need them when it mattered to me. I already knew the score.