Then, on a societal level, society should make marriage and children more desirable and attainable for women rather than shaming women for being practical about the whole matter.

I personally am sick to death of the constant drum beat that I must have some personal defect for not settling for a guy who low key hates or resents me and only wanting as many children as I could afford rather than submitting myself to a life as breeding stock just to make “society" happy.

It’s time for society to put up or shut up. Line in the sand. This isn’t a negotiation. Put up. Or shut the fuck up.