Then men should consider more than just looks when dating. Men should practice better discernment about where they're willing to park their dicks.

Contrary to making a separate point, you are proving hers.

Each sex creates the competition for the other sex, but there is interplay. In other words, one sex can reject the grounds for competition put to them.

Part of being passive in dating is that you have to wait and accept that you might not ever be noticed. That happens to a lot of women. Or, even if someone does show interest, they won't stick around and keep trying long enough for you to get past your thawing out phase. That happens to a alot of women too.