Then he can get metaphorically punched in the nose, just like the 14 year old did because his reasons are irrelevant.

He'll learn to leave my 'pigtails' alone or get whacked. Where is it written that women have to endure this constant fucking pecking from men because it's excuseable?

Do you care more about their reasons for doing it than the sanctity of your own body and mind?

If not, their whys don't matter. It's not our job to fix for them.