Then don't make it one. You're clearly happy with women going back to being the collateral damage. The majority of my age cohort are still on antidepressants due to the joys of heteronormative relationships, my guy.

Saying, "I'm not willing to be collateral damage to make comfort, entertainment, and ego any more just because I'm a woman" is not the same as wishing and hoping more men eat a bullet.

Focus. Fuck's sake.