Their incentive is that they want a romantic partner. It doesn’t matter what sex you are, if you want a mate, you have to appeal to the opposite sex.

If you don’t like what’s offered, you either settle or choose to not partner.

If you’re unwilling to do what it takes to be appealing, you either hope to find someone ok with settling or you choose to not partner.

By the averages...

Women have stated what they desire. Men are refusing to become desirable. So women are divesting from the dating scene instead of settling. Men are still railing about how no one will date them though.

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Clearly both sides of the equation made their choice here. None of us get to choose for anyone but ourselves.

Men complain about the lack of hot babes all while screaming about hypergamy. They’re stating over and over that the want women who are thin, feminine, will cook and clean, stay sweet and pleasing, and never confront them with boundaries. Women are no longer willing to be fuckmaids just to have a man, so they’re taking themselves off the market. At least one whole generation settled after the time when they no longer had to because of economic disenfranchisement. They were mostly miserable and have been warning younger women not to make the same mistake. Young women have seen their mother’s lives and want better for themselves. So, men either have to settle for what women are willing to offer or settle for dating each other instead.

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Clearly, once again, both sides of the equation have made their choices. You still only get to choose for you.

This is not one sex punishing or depriving the other it’s due. Or whatever nonsense gets flapped about the internet on any particular day.

It’s a series of choices everyone has to make and has made for themselves for what they believe will be their best chance at happiness and success in life.