The word 'love' isn't solely bound to notions of romantic love. The Greeks had 7 different words for love.

Social bonds are held together by different variations of love.

So yes. One does have the right to expect the love and care they put into those social bonds, i.e their relationships to be reciprocated.

Without that reciprocity, social bonds break down.

One should not be expected by society to give love and devotion to individuals, groups, or communities if one does not receive a reciprocal measure of love and care in one way or another.

The expectation to do so, is one of the things that holds do.inance hierarchy in power.