The only difference between the bottom feeding Incels Redditor and the average guy here is that the bottom feeder creates these memes blaming women for what they create.

The sad fact remains.

You can't have it both ways.

You cannot on the one hand denigrate, devalue, and put down behaviors and ethics that are required to have healthy relationships because some bozo thousands of years ago labeled them as 'feminine' in order to prove your manhood and gain status amongst other men and then be surprised that you don't have those things.

You reap what you sow.

Know what happens when you plant a melon seed?

You get a melon. Pretty obvious, right?

What do you think happens when you don't plant anything?

What do you reckon the answer is that you don't end up with anything?

Yeah.

Only men can fix their loneliness issues and it will only happen by returning to a definition of manhood that values relationships and invests in those skillsets. You'll continue being lonely until you do.

Start planting or shut up about your loneliness. You chose it. That's what you sowed. Don't be surprised come reaping time to find what you sowed to start off with.