The article also referenced the fact that those men never bother to show up.

Youre not being denied or gatekept from sex if you never show up in the first place.

Men are lazy. They expect all the work to be done for them. Finding a partner is work. Kkeeping a partner is work. Being a "nice guy" is not enough. It never was

Sitting at home feeling sorry for yourself that you have to be an active participant in your own life is not doing any of the work of living that life.