That's your problem along with everyone else spiuting gender essentialist bullshit.

You treat sex and relationships like a game. A zero sum game that you either win or lose.

How moronic. Again, y'all please do the rest of us a favor and retire your genitals. We really don't need more of this bullshit.

You don't have to 'have game' to be attractive or lure someone into sleeping with you. Good Lord. Plenty of shy people manage to find mates even though they always feel awkward socializing. Introverts will always feel depleted by others and prefer their own company for the most part, or a select few.

What people need is to stop playing games and learn to be okay with themselves.