That's where a lot of the push back is coming from. Men adopted this ideology and tried PUA tactics to get dates, were scamming women and now women won't date them or pay any attention to them. Men doubled down with the "you'll be sorry and die alone! Enjoy your cats!!" Still are, actually. But women, for the most part, just got on with it. We're not lonely (broad strokes) but men are.

That's why a lot of this push back is the way it is. You have to fix the problem. Women are not the problem, maming everything in life a competition to be "alpha" is. Relationships are inherently collaborative, not competitive. Competition is the exact opposite of what you want to do to not be lonely.

We tried to tell you. We tried. For years we tried. Y'all wouldn't hear it and really, what where y'all thinking?

Well, you're blaming women for being lonely and throwing out diatribes and calls for compassion and empathy from women so you'll feel better, yet you want that without leaving alpha ideology, Incels cultism, and the rhetoric from both behind. You want it without having to do the work of making connection.

It doesn't work that way. If you want connection, you have to connect. It's a bridge you have to build and then maintain, it's not a prize out of a Cracker Jack box. If you're not doing your part, you're not an engineer, you're just a bridge troll, making use of someone else's work to harass people. Most of the time bridge trolls sit in the dark, alone. For a reason.