Thats true, but they do feel a natural kinship toward other men. Bro culture, one say.

In the battle inside the minds of those of us fightint to change misogynists, narrative will be key. They (men) keep asking what's in feminism for us? Why should we change?

Well. Your article does that. Realizing that when your buddy marries, women earning less cheats him of money will go farther in changing these attitudes than suggesting he advocate for his wife, mother, or sister. If the bro code is what inspires loyalty and reflective thought, that's what you use.