Thats not what I'm saying, my guy.

Let's try another avenue since we're having problems grasping logistics of problem solving. Let's say we have a dog, my own inspired this metaphor. The dog keeps getting sick because it voraciously will eat anything it gets it's jaws around. This is an input and an output problem. The tendency of the dog to get into things and the availability of things for the dog to get into. Right.

I can clean up our apartment, teach the kids not to leave stuff out, out things away and out of reach, etc.

But we live in an apartment, which is a shared outside space. We can't control the neighbors, who are known to throw trash and food scraps out in the courtyard.

Cleaning up our own space and talking to the neighbors, maybe complaining to the office, the groundskeepers, etc will only go so far.

The dog will continue to get into things at every opportunity u til the dog either figures out that this behavior is making it sick and quits or the dog is trained to leave things alone.

Understand?

It's not about only helping your own gender. as women tidy up their own space and support the men in their lives, they are helping men. How is this not helping men? How do you make that calculus?

A cultural or environmental problem is an input/output problem. Men have to modify their behavior, do their part. If men are lonely, it's because, in part, they have devalued relationships and the skills necessary to build and maintain them. Men are going to have to stop gobbling up every idiotic notion and thing that Man Culture Influencers and Podcast Bros peddle.

Women cannot clean up your men's headspace and priorities for them.