That's fine. Confine yourselves ro women who want the same thing and stop playing games. In thr end, this about integrity vs chicanery.

There's a difference between finding someone you're attracted to, discovering she is attracted to you too, and hooking up for a night without moralizing about it in all the ways and finding someone you're attracted ro, finding out she doesn't want the same things, and imposing your will through deception, coercion and manipulation, violating her boundaries and her personhood in the process.

Wanting to have sex with a beautiful woman (or attractive man) is natural.

Lying, cheating, defrauding, manipulating, coercing, backstabbing, etc., is not.

All of y'all men also need to stop acting like you can't distinct the difference because you just fell out of that coconut tree or whatever. Grow the fuck up. You want to be respected as men? Then act like grown men rather than obnoxious brats trying to get one over on the teacher instead of doing what you need to he doing.