That's a huge part of it. Boys today are not being taught how their actions affect others. They grow up thinking that because they don't have to face the consequences then there aren't any, they're not that bad, or they just don't matter. Somebody else will clean it up.

And really, how can men be expected to parse the dichotomy of sexual conquest equals status and value as a man vs responsibility for the male half of the reproductive process.

One of those ideologies, and we know which one, has to give or our perceptions about how we women look at men do.

We see how it's going. Instead of blaming feminism for the breakdown of the family, men need to realize it was the inevitable result of failure to step up and be responsible for the lives they also create and that that means more than a crummy paycheck.