That would be impossible to do anyway and no one is saying that. It’s a false argument.

But why do you think men should get to share their every opinion about attractiveness with every woman they can? Why would you think most women would care? Why is that the go to response in a professional setting? That’s the real issue here.

I have particular things about men that I find attractive too. I like beards and toned but not bulky bodies. I like chest hair. I don’t tell my colleagues they’re less attractive to me when they shave their beard. I don’t stop every gym rat wanting to look like Arnold I meet on the street and tell them they’d look more appealing if they got off the 'roids.

I don’t tell my male friends or men who are providing me a service of some sort that they should wear v-necks so I can see their sexy chest hair. Or point out possible financial advantages to doing so.

It’s their choice.

My appearance preferences are my business. They don’t need to know them if they’re not intimately involved with me and even then it’s my choice.

It works both ways.

Individuals are the ones that have to live in and be comfortable in their own bodies so they get to decide how to dress and present it. No one needs anyone else’s ‘help’ so it shouldn’t be given carte blanche until someone actually ask for it. It’s just rude.

That’s the issue.