That seems to be pretty common, that men think it would be enjoyable.

I can partially understand that because men crow, behaviorally, as a means of expressing or acknowledging triumph for themselves and toward each other. Think Leo crowing, "I'm the king of the world!" on the bow of the Titanic. That kind of thing, just not usually quite so audacious.

Also, men repeatedly say they wish they would get this treatment from women because as a man they never 'feel' when they're sexually desired. So it's a fantasy.

To a degree, I can understand the disconnect.

But then there's a lot of things that men are just super obtuse about. Maybe unwilling to look at from another perspective.