That just proves you either don't care enough to remember or weren't told, or it just didn't matter to you. Not that it didn't happen.

The women in your life in life more than just the women in your family.

There's somebody who went to your school, your church, worked where you work or for the company, lives in your neighborhood, worked in businesses you frequent, etc who didn't make it home or was murdered at home.

And you know.

She just doesn't matter to you.