That is true too. Like a lot of things in life, it’s a balancing act.

They can try to scapegoat us or guilt trip us or whatever, but part of that equation is that somewhere in there you accept it.

We’ve simply got to get better at not accepting the double standards, feeling bad about having and unequivocally stating boundaries, and more actively pushing back and rejecting all the bullshit, etc. Without apology or equivocation.