That is the most desireable outcome. However, that means playing a different game. I'd love to. But the menfolks are signalling through the cultural zeitgeist that they don't want to. Some, to the point where they'd rather die than play a different game.

So, that means the best option is to either add some new cards, hazards, etc. as a kind of stepping stone to change the game enough over time u til it's a completely different game and they haven't noticed.